4 posts tagged “home”
thank you Eve...and no...it's not St. Anthony either.
I got my lazy ass up off the chair to go look at the novena on the kitchen windowsill...
and perhaps St. JOSEPH (scroll down to "in folklore") isn't doing such a bang--up job because I keep calling him by the wrong flipping name.
I mean, I certainly wouldn't like it if the people I work with called me Sally.
Fellow Ohioans know all about the snow and ice storm that came out of the south yesterday. We've mostly had lake effect storms here this winter and that means we get just a dusting or an inch of snow in Kent. We're just that far enough south of the lake effect line. But by 10 am the snow was coming down hard and sticking to the roads because we had such cold temperatures for a few days (high of 17 over 3 days).
Lila's school follows the university schedule for closings because they're on campus, and at 10:30 I got notice that they were canceling afternoon classes. My boss seemed grumpy when I told him I had to leave and would just finish up the project at home. When I asked him if he was okay, he said he was having a really crappy couple of days. That he and the designers were taking a beating from upper management.
At home I puttered with Lila and then got the call that the public schools were letting out early and so headed back out in the nastiness to get Ty. The roads were just awful yesterday. So slippery. Even with 4WD, I was fishtailing all over the place.
Then at home an email came across from the CEO, saying that today's layoffs were very difficult for him and for everyone but now that that's behind us we need to refocus and make up for the mistakes we've made in the last year.
Hello, what?
Layoffs?
Nothing on the news. Nothing in trusty google except for the crap that happened in July. OK. So maybe it was all in the LA office. Then Greg called to let me know what happened. Two people from the OH office got let go and one of them is my coworker, a graphic designer who has been with the company for 13 years (I think?) and has a son in college. He's middle aged and will likely find it difficult to get another job in his field paying even close to what he makes. The art schools are churning out graphic design hacks and in Ohio they're all out of work. It's insane.
And it's doubly insane because our 3 designers have been responsible for implementing the new packaging look and have a huge schedule of products that need to be re-shot and designed in the new packaging over the next two months. Huge. Like 100+ products. So two people are going to do that? It's already nuts that I'll be managing every piece of text for all of that, but 2 designers? What the everloving hell are they thinking?
I'll tell you what they're thinking. They're thinking we're all going to stay late to get that shit done. I'll tell you what else: not me. I'm so not giving up what little time I have with my family and with my own projects to make up for their short-sighted, bottom-line, corporate bullshit. Hells to the no. And I know the remaining two designers won't either. No way. Today is going to be Teh Suck.
You may be wondering: dude, when are you going to get off your ass and get that consulting business going, eh? And yeah, I've been plugging away at that. I started my website, but still have to finish a few side projects before I can build the portfolio page and have anything that's actually "live" to show. And I got my biz cards and have been passing them out like a good little pusher girl. I'm learning software that I struggle with in an effort to strengthen my "value added" abilities as both a writer and graphic designer.
And I still think about cupcakes everyday and may start a little side thing at home, cupcake catering with a small menu of choices...maybe all minis?
And there are other things percolating in the background having to do with our local farmers' market and getting more people interested in doing a home garden—outreach and education.
And yeah, the full-time gig certainly cuts into my waking/working hours...making it hard to move forward in big ways with any of that. But we still have that other house and we need that steady paycheck, no matter how uncertain it is in the end. But can I tell you a secret? I wished it was me who got laid off.
BTW, the house is a total fire sale now, we've dropped the price so much that we're going to owe the bank if we sell it. That's so fine with us, we just want to not have to think about it at all anymore. We're doing everything we can to stay responsible to it, not wanting to jump on the bandwagon of the new "walk away" movement. (which, you know, I totally get. I see these companies just walking away from people every day. Hello, GM! Hello my boss's, boss's boss! and why shouldn't homeowners also have that right? OK, contract, fine print, know what you're signing for, don't bite off more than you can chew, educate yourself about predatory lending. I get all that. But shit, the world is changing. The rules change every day. Like Michelle Obama says, they keep raising the bar out of reach. We'll keep going as long as we can because we chose to move out of the house and buy another in order to get into a better neighborhood and better schools, but you know what? I'm not ruling it out. If I'm still talking about this miserable job and this stupid empty house next February? You'll also be reading about how we're walking away.
Chris is showing it this week and he thinks they're the ones. So if you're so inclined, we'd sure appreciate the mojo. St. Christopher seems to be sleeping on the job.
No, I didn't get tagged...I snagged. It's been a hell of a week with the 2 kids down with strep and the little one with a double ear infection and then pneumonia and then an allergic reaction to the antibiotic which we hope to remedy today. So yeah, a meme is just the thing.
The living room, which is currently torn apart while we guerrilla paint the walls.
Do you have a dishwasher?
Yes. Thank goodness. The teenager uses 23 glasses a day. It's his job to empty it.
Is your living room carpeted or does it have hardwood floors?
I'm told there's decent hardwood underneath the brown almost-shag. I hate the brown, but kids and cats. It hides the dirt well.
Do you keep your kitchen knives on the counter or in a drawer?
In a knife block on the counter. I want to get one of those magnetic strips to hang them from one of these days. They go dull so quickly.
House, apartment, duplex or trailer?
House. I love this house!
How many bedrooms is it?
Three. Two upstairs (us and Lila) and one downstairs (Tyler). His is off the dining room and emits odors and spills garbage daily. Someday that will be the office. Not that I'm wishing for him to grow up fast or anything.
Gas stove or electric?
Gas.
Do you have a yard?
Yes! We are so fortunate to have 4 city lots in one!
What size TV is in the living room?
I think it's a 36". About four years old and going strong.
Are your plates in the same cupboard as your cups?
No.
Is there a coffee maker sitting on your kitchen counter?
Yes.
What room is your computer in?
The living room. Someday that office, though...
Are there pictures hanging in your living room?
There were, but everything's down while we paint and I'll probably print and frame some new stuff to change it up a bit.
Are there any themes found in your home?
Not yet, but we're working on it. First step: gorgeous red wall.
What kind of laundry detergent do you use?
Arm and Hammer Free. I need to start buying something biodegradable.
Do you use dryer sheets?
Sometimes. Especially if I'm drying fleece (which we have a LOT of in this house).
Curtains in your home?
Dining room and bathrooms. I'd like to do roman shades once these walls are all painted.
What color is your fridge?
It's stainless with an ice blue finish! We bought a floor model for 60% off at Sears, a model they had only (nationwide) sold maybe a dozen units of... hello, blue! But we love the blue. We don't care if our other appliances don't match--they're black and that's good enough.
Is your house clean?
Never as clean as I wish it was, but I'm not very good about regular maintenance. We'll call it good enough, okay?
What room is the most neglected?
Tossup between Tyler's room and the basement. They're equally disastrous, it's just the basement is 6x bigger ... but his room rivals it in many ways.
Are the dishes in your sink/dishwasher clean or dirty?
Dirty, waiting to finish loading the dishwasher.
How long have you lived in your home?
2 years in June.
Where did you live before?
About 45 minutes east of here in a much bigger house on 4 acres with crazy neighbors. I miss the peepers in spring, the night sky and the daily geese, but otherwise not a bit.
Do you have one of those fluffy toilet lid covers on your toilet?
Ew, gross.
Do you have a scale anywhere in your house?
A really ancient kitchen scale that's probably not very accurate. I've never owned a bathroom scale.
How many mirrors are in your house?
Two in the bathrooms, a crazy collage of odd mirrors in the dining room (4), one in the living room and one in each upstairs bedroom. So 9 total. The dining room ones are coming down, it's too much energy in there.
Look up. What do you see?
Sand painted white ceiling. Why do people do sand painting? Textured ceilings are ugly.
Do you have a garage?
Yes, but according to Chris there's no such thing as enough garage space.
Everytime I get the house all neat and tidy, clean and feeling good, I bring another load of dusty boxes and bags of stuff from the old house and have to unpack all over again. Today was my dressy shoes, things I so seldom wear, and only own a few pairs of, but still take up a sizeable chunk of the closet shelf. Also another box of dishes and glasses and the great pitcher from the 60's. The dollhouse. The Brio train set. Books. Many, many books.
It's raining again. My brain feels flat and furry and slightly damp.
